On Wednesday my older brother contacted a private psychiatric hospital in Okla. City. They indicated they had a bed and if Mike met their criteria they would accept him for treatment. I explained this to Mike and he seemed to understand that Butch and I couldn't keep staying with him 24/7 and that he still needed further treatment. He was willing to go and was very agreeable. He was going to have to go through the emergency department at St. Anthony's to be evaluated so I packed a bag (of what few clothes he has left) and we headed to Okla. City which is about 27 miles north of us. Mike started getting very anxious and after we hit the interstate he started going psychotic on us trying to open the car and jump out and reaching for the steering wheel. I had to just throw my body over him and try to restrain him but he's a big guy at 290 pounds and strong as a bull.
Butch managed to get us off the interstate and we finally got Mike quieter and kept heading for St. Anthony's. By the time we got there Mike was complete psychotic, screaming and grabbing at me. Two security guards assisted us in getting him into the ER where after he was placed on the bed Mike went completely catatonic. That was about 2pm on Wednesday and he has not been responsive since. He was admitted and taken to a geriatric psych. unit. The entire process took about 8 hours from beginning to end. We were exhausted both physically and emotionally. I hope we hear something soon from the psychiatrist. We were told he would actually call us. If he does he will be the first doctor who has ever spoken to a family member about my brother's mental illness in 40 years!!!!!!! No one ever spoke to our parents in all that time even after 6 hospitalizations. It's unbelievable! Of course I won't believe it until it actually happens!
I am trying to remain hopeful and they will be able to help Mike. We will do everything possible to prevent him from going to a state hospital again. I'd gladly die if it would just give my brother one day of peace and happiness. I wouldn't wish what he is going through on my worst enemy.
My New Garden
4 days ago
6 comments:
Dani, I'm so sorry but it sounds like he's in the right place.
The story of your brother is just heartbreaking. my thoughts remain with you.
What an emotional and physical ordeal for all of you. I do hope this new hospital will provide him with the help he needs.
Please call the doctor if you don't hear back! Many times doctors get overwhelmed with patient loads, emergencies etc and simply can't get back as quickly as patients or their families would like. And there is no reason for you not to call to inquire as to what is going on as long as you and/or your brother have power of attorney for your ill brother's healthcare (which I assume you do--if not this is something you need to get as HIPPA laws will prevent the doctor from discussing anything with you!) Best of luck with getting help for your brother.
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Reality is.
Sorry, Dani. I hope the doc calls you, and soon.
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