Thursday, December 17, 2009

Well I made it another 24 hours without it costing me anything!  HOORAY........but all the news isn't good.  My daughter Julie (who had her ACL repaired May is going to have to have it done again on the same knee.  It seems the graph either didn't take or it has torn.  Bummer....that was a very painful surgery and a very long recovery.  I feel so bad for her but what can you do.  Just grin and bare or bear it. 

It seems that whenever you feel like a rain cloud is following you around it doesn't take long to realize that your problems are only inconveniences when compared to the suffering of others.  One of our RN's received a call that her daughter and 2 granddaughters were in a terrible car accident in California and her daughter was killed instantly.  The children are 18 months and 4 years old.  The grandmother drove straight through from Okla. to Calif. to be with the children and fortunately they were not severely injured.  She brought them back here to live with her.here in Okla.  Now, that will make you put your troubles in perspective! 

Only two more days and then I'm going to enjoy 2 weeks of lazy bliss!  The shopping is done and the presents are wrapped so there nothing left but the Christmas cheer!

I have done a good job of compartmentalizing Ron's cancer and I can just keep it there until the next CT scan.  He seems to be feeling good and so we will remain hopeful.  The best thing to do is just keep on living every day it's the only day any of us has for sure!

2 comments:

Arkansas Patti said...

Sometimes it takes such a tragedy to make us realize our problems are quite managable. That grandmother not only lost a daughter but now she must become a mother to toddlers. God bless her.
So sorry about your daughters knee. Surgery redo is very discouraging. I'll put her in my prayers for a quick and successful recovery.
Enjoy your rest.

kenju said...

You and Patti are right. I am sorry about your daughter's knee and hope that her second surgery will take well and she'll heal quickly.

Poor grandmother. There must not have been a dad involved.

That's a good attitude about Ron.